RESOURCES FOR PASTORS APPRECIATION SUNDAY (October)
HOW TO PRAY FOR YOUR PASTOR
This page is designed for church board members, lay-leaders, etc. This is to be used as a tool to encourage and uplift your Pastor.
Monday: Pray for your pastor's family.
- God's peace and protection
- A growing love relationship with his/her spouse
- A commitment to quality and quantity time together
Tuesday: Pray for wisdom for your pastor.
- The mind of Christ
- Godly decision-making
- Understanding of biblical truth
Wednesday: Pray for your pastor's ministry focus.
- Clear vision
- Commitment to biblical priorities
- Remain true to his/her God-given gifts and strengths
Thursday: Pray for your pastor's health.
- Protection of his/her body and mind
- An extra portion of stamina and strength
- Commitment to stress-releasing activity
Friday: Pray for your pastor's spiritual growth.
- A heart for God and the lost
- Fresh biblical insights
- Personal devotions not related to sermon preparation
Saturday: Pray for your pastor's purity.
- Pure motives
- Pure thought-life and faithfulness to his/her spouse
- Pure commitment to complete integrity
Sunday: Pray for God's anointing on your pastor.
- Strength in leadership
- Passion in preaching
- Fruit and joy in ministry
WHAT DOES A PASTOR DO EACH WEEK?
A question many laypeople ask: "What does a pastor do each week?" - Remember pastors ask the same thing about laypeople. What we don't know about each other raises questions. Here are a FEW things pastors do in a typical week (we could add more if you had the time)
Preaching Conflict resolution Land acquisition Worship planning Strategic planning Denominational mtgs. Small groups Developing leaders Community involvement Prayer Supervising staff Problem solving Calling on the sick Vision-casting Crisis management Crisis intervention Membership class Weddings | Building consensus Hiring/firing staff One-on-one training Funerals Newcomer assimilation Morale building Baptism Evangelism Stewardship issues Leading a small group Discipleship Counseling Attending functions Advertising Lay ministry Board meetings Midweek service, etc. |
Issues faced by clergy
According to a fall 1992 survey by "Leadership," the following points were listed as causes for marriage problems in clergy families:
- 81% insufficient time together
- 71% use of money
- 70% income level
- 64% communication difficulties
- 63% congregational differences
- 57% differences over leisure activities
- 53% difficulties in raising children
- 46% sexual problems
- 41% pastor's anger toward spouse
- 35% differences over ministry career
- 25% differences over spouse's career
According to a 1991 survey by the Fuller Institute of Church Growth, pastors are overworked, underpaid, often working in a conflicted environment, and seem to be some of the loneliest people:
- 90% work more than 46 hours a week
- 80% believed pastoral ministry affected their families negatively
- 33% believed ministry was a hazard to their family
- 75% reported a significant stress related crisis at least once in their ministry
- 50% felt themselves unable to meet the needs of the job
- 90% felt inadequately trained to cope with ministry demands
- 70% say they have a lower self esteem now compared to when they started in ministry
- 40% reported serious conflict with a parishioner at least once a month
- 37% confessed to having been involved in inappropriate sexual behavior with someone in the church
- 70% do not have someone they consider a close friend