As I
set out to write this sermon for our stewardship drive kick-off, I was asking
myself how I would define stewardship. What came to mind was this: stewardship
is a caring and responsible way of being in relationship with people and the
rest of God’s creation for the sake of the present and hope for the future. All
of us are stewards and act as stewards on countless occasions every day. We
live and breathe stewardship, we’re born for it! It is our shared vocation.
When
I think of where I learned some of my most important lessons in stewardship, I
have to say that I learned them from my mother. She was a child during WWII, a
madness that Germans brought on themselves and millions of others. As a
consequence of the war, my mother grew up knowing about hunger, poverty and
interdependence and it shaped how she responded to need with everything that
was at her disposal for the rest of her life. Let me tell her a bit about her
life. One of her lasting childhood memories was being lined up by her father
along with her nine siblings according to age in order to receive a certain
portion of the one loaf of bread they had for that day and perhaps the next.
Her father occasionally left for days to go into villages where he had taught
elementary school to see if the farmers could spare a little food. Dandelions
and potato peels were sometimes all they had for a soup.
Her
brothers followed the coal trucks in the hope that a few pieces would fall off
the back of the truck so that they could be used to heat the house. Even into her sixties, my mother pondered
whether it had been OK to sneak into orchards in those days to pick up some the
apples that had landed on the ground. Food was not the only shortage they
encountered during the war. They eventually lost their home in a bomb attack
and the family was divided up and sent to live with people they didn’t know in
remote villages for a time before a relative took them in. Thankfully,
relatives from Nebraska also sent clothes from time to time and my mother often
mentioned the black pair of shoes that arrived in the mail from them that she
wore every day as long as they fit while some of her siblings wore sandals with
rubber tire pieces glued on as soles.
I am
sure that my mother learned many things from her childhood experience. What I
witnessed in her as her child was a tremendous comprehensive generosity and
sense of hospitality. We could bring home oodles of friends to stay overnight
and crowd our tiny apartment. Sometimes that meant bringing home people we had
met on various travel adventures. I remember giving an African American woman I
scarcely knew my mom’s number when I found out that she was visiting Germany.
She ended up staying with my mom for a week who in turn told me many times how
interesting it had been to meet a person of a different race. When she was
living alone, my mom once invited a whole Dutch family she had met in the
grocery store to stay over for a few days when they had trouble finding an
affordable place to stay in town. You see, strangers had given her a home and
she was committed to doing the same regardless of the circumstances.
My
mother was always buying or collecting things she thought someone she knew or
someone they knew could use. When my niece came to visit, there was a new set
of pots and pans my mom had gotten on sale. I would come home from the States
to a collection of traditional German pottery she had found at a flea market so
that I could have a piece of home abroad and on and on it goes. She was a good
seamstress and purchased many a quality bargain knowing she could change it to
the appropriate size. The downside of all this good stewardship was that our
attic was jam packed with things someone might some day be able to use.
She
also knew how to treat herself and saved money from her small pension so that
she could go on trips and have a good time even if it took a long time to make
that possible. She didn’t know the first thing about finances or how to
maximize her income but when a disaster struck somewhere, she got on the bus
and went downtown to her bank to send money to a worthy organization that could
help. She spent many hours visiting with people who were ill or grieving. My
mom was a also volunteer at the children’s hospital where she spent time with
kids whose parents weren’t able to be there during the day. She just wanted
them to know someone cared.
Theologian
Timothy Bagwell once commented that Jesus did not try to persuade people by
arguing minute points of the law but by helping them to picture the kingdom of
God and then to see themselves in that picture.1 I think my mom saw
herself in that picture of a caring and responsible way of being in
relationship with people and the rest of God’s creation for the sake of the
present and hope for the future. Life in God’s kingdom is marked by such living.
It was easy for her to imagine because she knew what it was to be in need and
to depend on other people’s care and she knew the value that presence and
generosity had in restoring hope to people who might otherwise despair. She was
a steward of hope.
Sometimes
faith in such hope is demanded from us when we feel least in a position to
afford it. This is the case of the widow to whom God sends Elijah. There is a
drought in the land that is to mirror the drought of people’s faithfulness to
and trust in God. The widow of Zarepath and her son have seen their few
resources dwindle down to a little bit of meal in a jar and a few drops of oil.
When Elijah meets her, she is busy collecting sticks so that she can make a
fire to prepare a last meal for themselves, certain that death is the fate that
will await them next. She feels totally isolated, powerless, and hopeless.
Elijah,
the prophet, has nothing better to do than to ask her to fix something for him
before serving her son and herself. He is dependent for his own survival on the
widow’s generosity. He promises that if she risks sharing what she has, the jar
of meal will not be emptied and the jug of oil not run dry until rain returns
to the parched earth. Somehow, into the midst of her despair, Elijah interjects
a vision of a future with hope that will depend on her willingness to take a
risk in the present. This is not a hoax. It is the word of the Lord. She abides
by Elijah’s request and they all get to eat for many days until the rains
return and they can once again plant and harvest. She leaned on the hope for a
better future and was therefore able to make a choice in the present that was
risky but yielded plentiful results. She was called out of her despair,
isolation, and powerlessness to take faithful action and herself became a
steward of hope. God provided.
We
are called to be stewards of hope, people who are committed to a caring and
responsible way of being in relationship with people and the rest of God’s
creation for the sake of the present and hope for the future. It is a way of
living in gratitude for all that we have received, especially in times of need.
It is a way of recognizing that we are all in his together whether we live in
Boxborough, Massachusetts or Biloxi, Mississippi or in the earth-shaken
mountains of Kashmir. It is a way of looking at the glass not as half empty but
as waiting to yield an increase. It is a way of daring to envision what all can
be accomplished with what we have to give and how manifold the increase may be
from investment. It is to picture, to envision what God can accomplish right
here on earth and to make ourselves part of that picture.
The
truth of the matter is that by giving ourselves to such a broader vision we are
forever enriched, wealthy beyond measure. Let me close by telling you one more
story about a woman who took tremendous pride and pleasure in the riches that
came to her: Oseola McCarty is a Mississippi washerwoman who had to drop out of
school in the sixth grade, but celebrated her long life of faith, work and
stewardship by giving $150,000 to the University of Southern Mississippi for
scholarships? She never got such an education, but she wanted others to have
it. When word got out of what she had done, she said that people often asked
her, Miss McCarty, why didn't you spend the money on yourself? Her answer, with
a smile: Thanks to the good Lord, I am spending it on myself.2“
What
amazes me most about this story is not even the impressive amount of money she
saved up from her hard work. It is that Oseola regards the fact that someone
else gets to fulfill a dream she couldn’t, by virtue of her gift, as the
greatest gift she could give to herself. Ms. Oseola McCarty knows how to be
good to herself! Her secret is that she is a woman who is committed to a caring
and responsible way of being in relationship with people and the rest of God’s
creation for the sake of the present and hope for the future. She is a steward
of hope.
I
think her ability to teach the world deserves a gazillion honorary doctorates!
May our lives be touched and shaken and inspired by such witness. Amen.


