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"Why
Are You Crying?”
John 20:14-18
Trips to graveyards
are not usually pleasant and filled with laughter. The trips that I have
made with some of you to cemeteries have been somber experiences, often
accompanied by tears. Death brings great sadness and a tremendous loss.
So, it is no wonder that the women who left the comfort of their warm beds
to come to Jesus' tomb while it was still dark on that first Easter
morning were very sad. It is no wonder that Mary was weeping--Jesus, her
Teacher, Master, and Lord had been crucified and was dead.
There, at the tomb,
she meets the resurrected Jesus. However, she doesn't know who He is. She
thinks he is someone else -- the gardener. He has two questions which are
critical, not only for Mary on that first Easter morning, but critical for
us who have left the comfort of our warm beds to come to this church while
it is still dark on this Easter morning.
First, he asks her,
"Woman, why are you crying?" Mary might have thought this was a
foolish question. After all, she's next to the tomb of a dear friend who
has died. What did this person expect her to do? Laugh? To compound the
problem, the body of her deceased friend was no longer there. Shouldn't
this naturally bring her to tears?
However,
should Mary have been crying? The Old Testament had prophesied that the
Messiah would suffer and die and be raised to life again. Several times,
Jesus had spoken very clearly about this. He had said, "We are going
up to Jerusalem, and everything that is written by the prophets about the
Son of Man will be fulfilled. He will be handed over to the Gentiles. They
will mock him, insult him, spit on him, flog him and kill him. On the
third day he will rise again." Mary had been told plainly that he
would die as the sacrifice for the sin of the world and that, three days
later, he would rise from the dead.. Having heard all of this, why should
Mary have been weeping?
Secondly, Jesus asks her,
"Who is it that you are looking for?" In this question, Jesus
was attempting to bring her back to what she should have known. Jesus does
not say "What are you looking for?" That was Mary's
problem. She was looking for a "what" and not a "who".
She was looking for a lifeless corpse, instead of a living Lord. Because
of her lack of faith in the promises of her Lord, Mary was consumed by her
grief and thought that her life was now meaningless. All that was left was
to find and properly bury the body of Jesus. That would end her quest but
not solve her problem.
Only Jesus could end her
grief and provide the solution to her life's problems. Even though Jesus
was alive and standing right in front of her, she was not able to
recognize Him. It was only when Jesus called her by name,
"Mary," that everything changed. Her sadness was turned to joy..
Jesus who was dead was now alive! All of his promises were true. Sins
which before Good Friday were unforgiven were now forgiven. Death, which
before that morning, was firmly in control of all humanity had now lost
its grip on humanity and was nothing to be feared.
Yet
this euphoric state of events was not simply something for Mary to bask in
on that Easter morning. The joyous benefits of Jesus' resurrection from
the dead -- assured forgiveness and eternal life -- were not something for
Mary to cling to for herself. Mary's life has meaning now. Jesus gives her
a purpose in life. She is to be a messenger of the resurrection. He said,
"Go to my brothers and tell them, `I am returning to my Father and
your Father, to my God and your God.'" So, Mary hurried off and
proclaimed to the disciples, "I have seen the Lord!"
As we sit here
early this Easter morning, still trying to wipe the sleep from our eyes,
we may not be literally crying as Mary was, but often we live our lives
seemingly as full of grief as Mary's. Our lives are full of
disappointment, sadness, grief. Today is the one Sunday of the year when
we ask people to come to church in the early morning darkness, but let me
tell you something—we come to church in the darkness of the soul all the
time, just like Mary did, in a world that was dark outside, and dark
inside.
This
world we live in is often dark, bleak and cold, isn’t it? Sometimes the
world seems downright crazy. It’s a world that changes so fast anymore
nobody can possibly keep up. It’s a world where other people can let you
down suddenly and without warning. It’s a world where our loved ones
leave us all too soon, and when they do, our inner world can be just as
dark as the outer world. But that’s the beauty of Easter. Easter is all
about the love of God that seeks us in this deep darkness. It’s not
about the love you find in romance novels or pop songs or TV shows. Easter
is all about a real world love that heals broken hearts and gives our
lives meaning.
We
come to this church week after week, but, like Mary didn't expect anything
to change when she went to the tomb, we don't really expect anything to be
changed here. Katie Luther, wife of Dr. Martin Luther, after witnessing
her husband's melancholy mood, dressed entirely in black clothes,
appropriate for a funeral. When Dr. Luther asked why she did that, she
replied, "God must be dead for you to act this way." Many
Christians today live as if God is dead and gone.
So, Jesus'
question for Mary is for us today as well, "Woman..Man...why are you
crying?" It is a good question. We should not be crying or moping
around. We should know that Jesus is alive! We not only have the
prophecies of the Messiah's suffering and death as Mary did, but we have
Gospel accounts of those prophecies being fulfilled.
Then Jesus' second question comes to us, "Who is it that you are
looking for?" Do you share the problem that Mary had of looking for a
what instead of a who? Of course you are not
looking for the dead body of Jesus, but are you looking for happiness,
fulfillment, and purpose in what the world offers?
Even
if Mary had found what she was looking for -- the body of Jesus -- she
still would have been disappointed. The same is true for us. Even if
people find what they are looking for in this world -- wealth, fame,
success in sports or business, or anything else, inevitably they still end
up disappointed.
Since
last Easter Sunday, we have all been hit hard by the presence of death
among us. I think of the good friends we have lost, Bob, J.D., Olive Ruth,
Paul Ruck, Art, and most recently Rodd, to say nothing of the people from
the larger tri-town community, like a Clyde Herbert or a Mary Duke and on
and on, and I think, “No wonder people are crying. How could they
not?” Our vision is clouded by our grief, just as Mary’s was.
But my friends, only
Jesus can end our grief and provide the solution for our life's problems.
He knows we’re in pain, he knows we’re lost and feeling forsaken, but
Easter Sunday, at sunrise, that’s when he calls us by name and
everything changes. And He has done that. As the Scripture says,
"Fear not, for I have redeemed you; I have called you by name; you
are mine." In baptism,
he has called each of you by name to be his own. We are able to accept all
of the promises that Jesus made: that his death was our death for sin and
that his resurrection is the guarantee of our resurrection from the dead
and life eternal in heaven, not just for us but for our loved ones.
That's why we
have the baptismal font in the front and middle of our sanctuary. It is so
that every time you come into this sanctuary, crying either inwardly or
outwardly over the sorrows and cares of this life, you can hear Jesus call
your name once again. “I am alive. I am in charge. I have won the
victory over sin by my death on the cross. I have won the victory over
death by my resurrection from the dead. That victory is yours and nothing
that you ever face - no evil, no problem, no sickness, and not even death
itself - can ever change that."
That's why we
celebrate so strongly this day. Our grief does not win. Death does not
win. Our Great Enemy does not win. Jesus wins, and he shares the victory
with us. Our guilt before God does not condemn us. Jesus has wiped away
that guilt on the cross. Death shall not defeat us. Jesus has defeated
death by rising victoriously on Easter morning. We, too, shall conquer
death and live eternally. What an exciting day this is!
Yet, like Mary, this
wondrous event and glorious news is not something for us to simply bask in
on this day until the next year when Easter rolls around. It's not simply
ours to enjoy by ourselves within this church building while we wait to
die and be with the Lord. Our lives have purpose and meaning now.
Like
Mary, Jesus calls us to go from this place to those burdened by guilt,
hurting from the effects of evil, or saddened by the impact of death and
tell them the news. Tell them about the relief from guilt that comes, not
by pretending that sin doesn’t exist, but by the full and complete
forgiveness of sins. Tell them that you have seen the Lord. You have seen
him in how your life has changed, and in how other lives have changed. He
is alive and that, by his life, we have a life that is full of meaning and
purpose. And, when death comes, we shall be resurrected as he was and live
as he is now in heaven forever.
In this early
morning hour, I can understand why you might be tired or not yet awake.
But why are you crying? Why are you sad? Why are you discouraged or
afraid? There is no reason. Jesus has risen from the dead. He has
conquered all of your problems. He has overcome the thing you fear most,
death, by rising from the dead. Today, you have the victory over sin and
its effects. Because He lives, you will conquer death, be resurrected from
your grave, and live for all eternity. Cry? Feel sad? Be discouraged? No
way! The joy and celebration of Easter have just begun! And they are going
to last for you, for me, and for all believers for all eternity. Amen.
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